How to Make Her Orgasm The First Time

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Dirty Talk

Dirty talk should be subtle and sexy, like an aphrodisiac. Compliment her. Tell her what you love about her, how beautiful she is, and how she turns you on. Don't go overboard with obscene words, as some women find this offensive, but if you know your partner well, and what she responds to, you can be a bit more adventurous. If you can say it in a romantic language like French or Italian, all the better. It doesn't matter that she may not understand what you are saying, it will still drive her wild.


Spend more time on foreplay. To achieve an orgasm a woman needs twenty minutes of stimulation, on average. Stroke around the clitoris, as it's much too sensitive for direct stimulation. Don't just focus on the clitoris, there are many more erogenous zones such as lips, breasts, nipples, vagina, buttocks, thighs, stomach and back, to name just a few. In fact, anywhere that she feels pleasure when touched is in the zone. Soft kisses, eye contact and gentle stroking will lead to deep breathing, moaning and gasping.

Oral Sex

Cunnilingus is one of the ultimate pleasures of sex. Licking, sucking and blowing on the clitoris and vagina, interspersed with breaks in contact can be very arousing. Most women are able to orgasm for oral sex due to clitoral stimulation. Light pressure and tongue strokes to the clitoris intensify orgasm. Watch and listen to see what she responds to best. Hold her close as you stimulate her. Go slowly and work up to a crescendo. Don't rush oral with just a few perfunctory licks, so you can get 'on the job', that just won't work.

Doggy Style

Maybe the easiest way to bring a woman to orgasm, as it hits the right spot. Sex doggy style stimulates the most sensitive parts of the vagina in a delicious combination of genital pleasure. And for a woman, presenting herself in this provocative manner, waiting to be possessed can be the ultimate sexual thrill. In addition to this, the penis can stimulate the G-spot in an entirely different way than in other positions. Combined with a little clitoral stimulation, you have the recipe for orgasm for many women - if you can hold off your own orgasm for long enough. There are very few women that don't find this position exciting, and it's a great visual for a man. This position is probably top of the list for both sexes.

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