How To Show Your Online Date You're Genuine
The online dating and hook-up scene is booming and both men and women are using the internet to find partners for love and sex more than ever before. This is great news for guys because traditionally women have been a lot more reluctant than men to sign up to these kind of sites! With increasing numbers of women comes increasing competition, however, and women are still understandably cautious of who they meet off these kind of sites, so it's important to show her that you're genuine. Doing so will put her at ease and make you stand out from the crowd so it's in your favour to do so!
Women receive far more messages on these sites than men so it's an uphill struggle to get her to notice you amongst the crowd. It feels good to get a response from a girl to one of your introductory messages but the struggle is far from over! If you're looking to seal the deal then you're going to have to play it smooth.
Unless you're incredibly attractive and at peak physical fitness it's better that you don't overemphasise sex to begin with and don't start by sending her a picture of your penis! It's implicitly accepted that you're both looking for a hook up because you're both members of a hook up site, so there's no need to obsess over it. Every guy on the planet has a penis and even if you're convinced yours is the biggest it's highly unlikely that's going to be what sways her. There will be a suitable time and place to show her the goods, but now is not that time.
Instead what you want to be doing to set yourself apart is a mix of wooing and teasing her. Put an emphasis on how you'd treat her prior to getting her into bed - wining and dining is as old as the hills but it works just as well today as it always did. Don't be too explicit in what you let on however; you'll want to keep a few surprises up your sleeve. Even if you're not looking for anything more than a hook up, it's worth taking her out somewhere special first because it makes you stand out from the crowd. Every guy on the site is looking for sex so telling her the same thing she's heard from the hundreds of other guys messaging her isn't going to make you stand out.
To show her you're genuine you've also got to let her know a little about yourself. Don't make it all about sex, make yourself come across as a human being rather than a one night stand. There's no need to tell her your life story but focusing on your dreams and aspirations is good - it makes you come across as a real person and it's a good idea to ask hers too so that you can establish a connection. Follow these simple guidelines and she should be yours!
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