What Kinds Of Niche Adult Sites Are Out There?
Sex is an intensely personal thing. Almost everyone, if they're speaking truthfully, has some kind of fantasy or kink that they suspect isn't quite 'mainstream' - and there are very few people whose sexualities are entirely straightforward. If people repress these thoughts and feelings, they often find that it makes them unhappy - and going on a voyage of sexual self-discovery is an important part of the mental health and happiness of many.
How It Helps To Seek Out Like-Minded People
If you try to repress your sexual desires, you might find that they become associated with unhappiness or feelings of shame and that you're not able to participate in healthy sexual expression. It's very important to most that they are able to explore the things that turn them on, and that they are reassured that the things they're interested in are normal.
The first thing to bear in mind is that pretty much everyone has something like this. Whatever you want and whatever you imagine, someone else shares it - and some of those people would probably like to do those things with you. The internet is a wonderful tool in many ways, not least because it is perfectly designed to help you locate and hook up with those people.
Some Examples Of The Kinds Of Community You Can Find
There are as many kinks, fetishes and fantasies as there are people, but some of the most common include:
- Dominant/submissive, sadist/masochist and other pain or power play dynamics (usually referred to as 'BDSM', and encompassing any number of different interests)
- Ageplay and 'caregiver dom' fantasies, in all gender configurations - including daddy or mummy dom/me dynamics
- Pet-play fetishes - usually puppies, kittens or ponies, but there are others and these fantasies can intersect with other subcultures and groups
- Fetish communities centered around BBW/BHMs, weight gain fantasies and similar; feederism or simply an enthusiasm for larger bodies
Every single one of those groups of people (plus many more, if your own interests aren't in the above list) have online communities where you can meet, mingle and discuss as well as find people to hook up with. If you've been struggling with feelings of worry or shame about your sexual fantasies, it's a really good idea to meet people who share them - you'll find that you feel a great deal more at peace with yourself and, of course, you'll probably have the opportunity to try some of them out in real life with people who are just as enthusiastic about them as you are!
A Note On Ethics
Of course, everything in this article is working on the assumption that your deep-seated sexual desires are "safe, sane and consensual" - particularly that whatever it is you want to do involves only participants who have been able to give full and enthusiastic informed consent. It's only if this isn't true that you should seek out emotional support and medical help rather than sexual encounters.
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